[magiquenoir]

ну что сказать... у меня подруга одна примерно так же с мамой разговаривает, за что получает от меня... хотя она старше О.о

After watching 5000 questions(the variety show), the doctor said that Teuk had some sort of trauma when he was younger. At that time, the camera was filming Heechul and Heechul was shocked and he said that the members don't even know about it and that only Teuk himself knows. I felt that this trauma is really something that Teuk himself really doesn't want to mention, if not, the members probably knows about it.

Teuk literally doesn't mention his family(other than his grandma). Its only after his Mum opened a coffee shop that we got to know stuff about his mum. Its only after his sister got into the entertainment industry that we got to know stuff about his sister. He once said on Strong heart:"Its only when I became a celebrity then I got recognition from my mum". When everyone else was laughing, I cried. There was a fan that went to Kona beans and talked to Teuk's mum about Teuk learning Japanese. At that time, his mum had a face of disgust and said that if he is learning Japanese, he might as well just learn Mandarin properly. At that time, the fan was very happy that his mum said to learn Mandarin instead of Japanese(because she was a chinese fan) but she neglected the changes in his mum's expression.

When his sister said she wants to go overseas to study, she went. When Teuk's family objected to him being a trainee, he used his tuition fees for train fares to go to and fro from the company behind his parents' back. When his parents found out, he suffered lots of physical pain. Its only when Teuk insisted that his dad kept quiet and just looked at him.

Remember some time ago, on a variety show, there was a question that asked who was the most rebellious child, all the members pointed at Teuk. Shindong acted out how he talked to his mum on the phone..
Mum: Hello~ Jungsoo-ya~
Teuk: I'm very busy right now~ I'm hanging up~

During the Singles magazine interview, Teuk said if he had kids in the future, he wants to become a good dad because he was thirsty for dad's love when he was younger so it would be good if his kids liked him in the future.

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@темы: SuJu, Итук

Comments

[Meff]

Жалко Итука. Недополучил родительской любви.

[magiquenoir]

Meff, ну как сказать... жалко, конечно. в общем, имхо, нужно уметь прощать и двигаться дальше, а не помнить детские обиды всю свою жизнь и на них жизнь строить

[Meff]

blackmajik, ну ты, конечно, правильно рассуждаешь... Мне кажется, детские обиды до конца забыть невозможно.

[magiquenoir]

Meff, забыть невозможно - это правда) я все свои обиды на маму прекрасно и сейчас помню, но можно же просто попробовать отпустить и жить своей жизнью ^^ есть такая мудрость "не суди и не судим будешь", пусть сначала своих детей вырастит, а потом судит своих родителей за ошибки. я в общем, его тоже не осуждаю, и не стараюсь кого-то оправдать или обвинить, просто он у меня правда вызывает жалость, а мне меньше всего хочется испытывать жалость к кому-либо из них =)

[Meff]

blackmajik, Итак и так живет своей жизнь))Но, видимо, все-таки часто вспоминает обиды.
А детей-то уже пора "выращивать", пора)))

[magiquenoir]

А детей-то уже пора "выращивать", пора)))

да ладно, ему ещё 30-ти нет =) пусть ещё поразвлекается)